As we continue our series on being "transformed by the renewing of our
minds," from Romans 12:1-2, I'd like to explore a few more reasons why mind
renewal is so very important.
Mind renewal is critical because whoever
directs and controls our thinking is ultimately the one who will direct and
control our lives. In
other words, how we think affects how we feel; how we feel influences our
desires; and our desires finally produce our actions.
Therefore, if Satan can influence our thinking by keeping us immersed in our
own natural, emotional way of responding, he has got us and he really doesn't
have to do anything else. We've played right into his hands. He
knows he'll win when we're consumed in our own problems, our own trials and our
own circumstances, because then we'll be confused, discouraged and
depressed. And this will immediately quench God's Spirit in us, and none
of His Light or Love will be able to shine forth. We'll be forced to "live a
lie." We must always realize that the battle is for our mind!
Without a renewed mind, without the Mind of Christ in operation, we'll never be
transformed into Christ's Image.
An Example: Humiliation
I have a friend back East, who for many years had trouble with her next
door neighbor. After much prayer, she felt lead to go to her neighbor,
apologize, and make things "right." For some reason, however, the
neighbor would not accept her apology, but instead ridiculed and humiliated
her.
For seven months, my dear friend carried this rejection and humiliation
buried tight in her own heart, entertaining it, mulling it over and letting it
totally consume her. By worldly standards, my friend was completely
justified in being hurt and angry, but by God's standards, because she chose to
hang on to these negative feelings (rather than release them to God), it
quenched His Spirit in her heart. And as a result, she wasn't able to
"show forth" God's Life (His Love). She wasn't able to "live the
truth."
Thoughts of rejection and humiliation not only stayed with her, but they also
began to motivate all her actions. Every time she passed by her neighbor's
house, she would find herself angry "for no apparent reason." Every time
she pulled into her own driveway and glanced over at the neighbor's dog,
feelings of humiliation and resentment would completely overcome her, even
though she wasn't consciously thinking about the situation at all.
This went on for seven long months, until an incident occurred between
the two families that somewhat alleviated her hurt feelings. But had my
friend been able that first night to "renew her mind" - to take every thought
captive, to give her hurts to God, and by faith put on the Mind of Christ - she
could have in time been freed and enabled to see the situation from God's
perspective. Perhaps then she could have been a better witness of God's
Life in the middle of the trial.
Can you see how Satan revels in our bondage to our own self-centered
thoughts and emotions? At this point, he is directing, controlling and
influencing our lives. This is why it's so critical to learn "how" to
allow the Holy Spirit and the Mind of Christ to have full control of our minds,
so that it will be God's Life coming forth from us and not our own.
Another reason it's so critical to daily renew our minds is that if there is
no mind change, then there will be no life change either.
In other words, without a renewed mind our lives will remain the same as
they've always been, no matter what we do or what we try. No matter how
many Bible Studies we attend, no matter how many Scriptures we read, no matter
how often we go to Church, no matter how much we pray and worship, if we don't
have a mind change our lives will still have the same problems, the same
failures, and the same defeats as they've always had.
An interesting Scripture that illustrates this point is
Jeremiah 48:11, "Moab hath been at ease from his youth, and he hath settled on
his lees, and hath not been emptied from vessel to vessel, neither hath he gone
into captivity; therefore, his taste remained in him, and his scent is not
changed."
The Moabites were a people who were bent on "self
preservation" at all costs. This is what "settled on his lees"
means. These people had never been broken or emptied of themselves - their
own thoughts, emotions and desires. They were out to protect themselves
"at all costs." They would never allow themselves to "go into
captivity." Therefore, their "taste" (which I see as their
thinking) "remained the same," and their "scent" (which I see as the
fragrance they emitted from their lives) "never changed."
II Corinthians 2:14-15 validates this: "Now thanks be unto God, who
always causeth us to triumph in Christ, and maketh manifest the savour of His
knowledge by us in every place. For we are unto God a sweet savour of
Christ, in them that are saved, and in them that perish: To the one we are the
savour of death unto death; and to the other, the savour of life unto life."
What I see God saying here is that if we have never been broken or
emptied of our self life (our own thoughts, emotions and desires that are
contrary to God's) and we are bent on preserving that self at all costs, then
our thinking process is never going to be renewed, and certainly there won't be
any transformation in our lives.
No Transformation
Lukewarmness and hardness seems to be so apparent among Christians
today. Some are willfully refusing to change (or let themselves be broken)
out of disobedience, stubbornness, and fear, but for many others, no life
transformation is occurring because of just plain "ignorance." First of
all, ignorance as to what the Mind of Christ is; next, ignorance as to how we
renew our minds; and finally, ignorance as to how we put on the Mind of
Christ.
This is exactly what happened to me for 20 years. I desperately
wanted to live God's Life - to live the truth. But I didn't know how.
One day I would be "up" and living the Christian life; the next day, down in the
dumps, experiencing no victory at all. My life was an emotional roller
coaster.
Friends would tell me, "Nancy, just read the Bible more." I did,
and still there was no lasting change. They would tell me, "Just pray
more." I did and still nothing changed my life. They would tell me,
"Go to church more." I did and still nothing. "Go to this
seminar. Go to that seminar." I did. I did. But still
there was no lasting life transformation.
The reason there was never any consistent life change in me is because my
"thinking process" was never touched or renewed. My Christian walk was
erratic, because my responses were continually dependent upon how I felt, what I
thought, how people responded to me and what my circumstances were. So one
day I would be up and "full of God" because I felt great and Chuck and I were
getting along. But the next, I would be down and "full of self" because I felt
lousy, Chuck had said something horrible to me and things around me were out of
control. I call this the Christian "yo-yo" syndrome.
It's very much like those fad diets we so often go on. With each diet,
yes, we lose weight, but over time we most always seem to gain that weight back,
and sometimes even more. The reason is that our basic eating habits have
not been changed. And it's the same thing with our lives. If our
basic thinking patterns are not changed, then our lives won't change either, no
matter what we do.
Isaiah 59:10 graphically explains this, "We grope for
the wall like the blind, and we grope as if we had no eyes; we stumble at noon
day as in the night; we are in desolate places as dead
men." [Note:
"Eye" in the Scriptures often refers to our mental vision, our thinking process
or our mind.]
The above Scripture describes me perfectly
before I understood how to
renew my mind. What I didn't understand then was that I had become
enslaved and in bondage to my own self-centered negative thoughts and
emotions. And I had to be willing to let go of that "self" before my whole
thinking process could be changed and Godly actions could be produced.
Now, it's not fun to see the truth about ourselves. But the truth
has to be revealed before we know exactly what to hand over to God.
Jeremiah 30:12 tells us that "our wounds (hurts, fears,
doubts, guilt, etc.) are incurable," meaning that these things we hold on
to won't go away on their own. In fact, they'll con-tinue to accumulate and motivate
all our choices and, thus, our actions.
So, unless we learn to "deal," through the Mind of Christ, with each
pain, each hurt, each insecurity, each instance of pride and unbelief as it
occurs, we'll continue to act out of those things whether we realize it or
not. Then, the same crumbling that has occurred before will continue to
happen. Thus, there will be no healing, no renewal, and no transformation
at all in our lives.
Therefore, a "mind change" is essential if there is ever
to be any "life change" at all! "I beseech you brethren, by the mercies of
God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God,
which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world, but
be ye transformed [how?] by the renewing of your mind, that ye many prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." (Romans 12:1-2)
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This article was excerpted from Nancy's study
series on tape, Be Ye Transformed. This study is a sequel to
The Way of Agape, which is
now available as a textbook with its own workbook, as well as an audio
and video tape series.