Last month we began a series of articles on the Mind of
Christ - what it is, what it does and how it works. I appreciate all the
wonderful comments I've received as a result of my introductory article.
This is a series of articles and the things you asked about will be covered in
forthcoming issues. Many of your questions are dealt with in the tape
series, Be Ye Transformed.
Romans 12:1-2 tells us that having a renewed mind (i.e., putting on the Mind of
Christ) is the 'link' to our being transformed into Christ's Image and living the
truth. This is saying that if we don't allow God's Life (in our hearts) to
flow out into our lives (our souls), then we'll be just like the world -
showing forth 'self life' and not God's Life at all. We'll be living
a lie, saying we are Christians and yet our actions disproving it.
1 Corinthians 2:16 tells us that we all possess
the Mind of Christ to help us get God's Life from our hearts out into our
lives. However, since many of us don't understand what the Mind of Christ
is or the incredible riches we possess because of it, we have just gone on
judging and evaluating everything that happens to us through our own reasoning
and our own emo-tional way of thinking. Even though Proverbs 3:5 tells us,
"Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own
understanding," we do it anyway. It's a habit!
Reasons Why We Depend Upon Our Own Thinking
One of the reasons we
continue to depend upon our own natural, emotional way of thinking rather than
the Mind of Christ is that most of us are not even aware that our own thinking
is any different from God's thinking. Isaiah 35:8 tells us that our own
natural way of thinking (even as Christians) is not only different than God's,
but it's usually totally opposite from God's.
"For
My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, saith the
Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than
your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts." So, we must realize that just
because we are Christians, it does not mean we will automatically have God's
thoughts in our lives. We won't. Just as God's Love can be blocked
off in our hearts (by our own emotional choices), so God's Thoughts (His Mind)
can also be
withheld.
Another reason
many of us continue to depend upon our own thinking and not God's is that most
of us seldom take time to "take every thought captive to the obedience of
Christ" as 2 Corinthians 10:5 tells us to do. How many of you do this
routinely? Most of us, unfortunately, don't stop and think before we
respond, we just react naturally.
Chain Reaction
The reason our thoughts are so important to God is
that our thoughts are the first to be triggered in the chain reaction of our
souls. Our thoughts trigger our emotions; our
emotions stir up our desires; and then our desires
produce our actions. So if we could catch our negative thoughts
when they first occur, we could stop the whole chain reaction before it even
begins (and we would be able to prevent a lot of the sin that occurs in our
lives). When God says, "take every thought captive," He doesn't mean look at and
dissect every single thought we have. He means stop and take a good, hard
look at the anxious ones, the hurtful ones, the doubtful ones, the frustrations,
the anger, the pride, and all our other 'emotional' and ungodly thoughts.
Romans 14:23 says, "whatever is not of faith is sin." In other
words, any thought that we have that's "not of faith" we need to deal
with. Another 'barometer' that helps me know which thoughts God wants me
to take care of are the thoughts and emotions that "take away my peace."
These are the ones I need to "take captive" and do something about. What happens
when we don't "take every thought captive" is that we end up being carried on by
the 'tide of emotion' (that chain reaction) and quenching God's Spirit and His
Life in our hearts.
Example: How Would You Have Responded?
Many years ago, I had set aside one whole week to rewrite some very
important material for an upcoming seminar. I marked this particular week on
Chuck's calendar months before, asking him to "please save this week for
me." As it happened, it was going to be the only week where Michelle and
Lisa were both going to be gone and I would have time on the computer to think
and write.
Well, unbeknownst to me, my precious Chuck forgot about 'my special
week,' and he proceeded to invite the whole office over to our house on
Wednesday night of that week for a surprise birthday party for his two business
partners. After he had invited everyone, he called me up and said, "Honey,
I hope you won't be angry, but...." and then he told me what he had
done.
Now, if you were me and you received a phone
call like that, how would you have responded to your spouse? Put yourself
in my situation. Pretend, if you are a wife and mom, your kids were
going to be gone and you had a whole week of shopping planned, relaxing at the
beach or whatever is special to you. If you're a dad and a father,
say you had the week off and had planned to go to the mountains or on a fishing
trip. How would you have reacted to your spouse after a phone call like
that? Be honest!
How many of you would have responded with the Mind of Christ? 1) Having
run first to God; 2) Having given Him your frustration and anger; 3) Having
chosen to unconditionally forgive your spouse; 4) Having sought God's Wisdom and
Counsel as to how to respond; and, 5) Then, been willing to go to your spouse
and in God's Strength, love them 'wisely' as God would have you to do? How
many of you would have responded like this?
No way! Naturally and emotionally (without being taught to take
every thought captive and 'how to' put on the Mind of Christ), we all would have
reacted in one of two ways: either we would vent and tell our spouses off (which
is exactly what I did and I even 'banged' the phone down on him); or we would
bury our anger and frustration, give them the 'cold shoulder' for awhile, and
then distance ourselves.
By worldly standards, we certainly would be 'justified' by reacting
this way. They were wrong. However, in God's plan of things,
both these natural ways of reacting quench His Spirit. This is worldly
thinking and not the Mind of Christ. Yet, even as Christians, we're
reacting this way all the time and not realizing that we're missing God's
best. We're being conformed to the 'world' and not transformed out of
it!
As we begin to "take every thought captive" and as we become more aware
of our thinking, we'll be shocked to see how often we all react in our own
self-centered way of thinking and not God's way at all. And this is
exactly what happened to me. After the phone call, God tapped me on the
shoulder and said, "Nancy, look at your reactions. Take those thoughts
captive."
Well, it was quite obvious whose thinking I was depending upon at that moment. I
was wild with emotions - I was angry and upset and mad. (Again,
lack of peace is a good barometer to see whose life you're functioning on: God's
or your own.) It was very apparent that I was not responding with the Mind
of Christ or the Love of God.
So I knew I had a choice to make: I could either continue on in the way
I was going and end up quenching God's Spirit (Roman 14:23); or, I could choose
to "put off" the negative thoughts and "put on" the Mind of Christ (i.e., renew
my thinking). Since I have found there is no other way that works (after
being a Christian for almost 40 years), I decided to do it God's way, even
though it was the last thing in the world I felt like doing at that moment.
First, I went to God and took a long, hard look at all those
negative thoughts I was feeling. I cried and told God, "It's not fair; he's
wrong. I wanted and needed my week." After I realized just exactly what my
ungodly thoughts and feelings were, I then confessed them to God and admitted
that they were sin; I told Him I didn't want to follow those emotions anymore,
but wanted to do His Will; I chose (by faith, not feelings) to unconditionally
forgive Chuck; I gave everything I was thinking and feeling to God; and then, I
asked Him to cleanse and heal me. Finally, I read some Scripture and reconciled
myself to giving the party the following week.
It's so exciting when you do choose to turn around and do it God's way:
you not only get His Love and His Thoughts back into your life actions, but you
also free Him to perform miracles and that's exactly what happened in this
particular case.
When I called Chuck back to apologize for my outburst, he said, "Oh, honey,
I'm so glad you called; I'm so sorry I forgot about your week; I've rearranged everything
- instead of having the party at our house, we're taking the
whole office out on a boat cruise."
So I got 'my week' after all! And I learned a little more about God's faithfulness to perform His
Will in my life, when I choose first to yield myself totally to Him no matter
how I feel or what I think. If we can just be 'willing' to do His Will,
regardless of our feelings or the circumstances, it's incredible what God will
do as a result.
Now, it might take a few moments to "take those thoughts captive" and
to recognize exactly what's going on. But if you ask God to help you catch
each negative thought and you are willing to deal with them as He desires, I
promise you He will be faithful to help you.
Years ago, God gave me a dream. I sat up in the middle of the
night and wrote down all that God had said in the dream, and then I went back to
sleep. When I awoke the next morning, there written on my pad of paper
beside me was, "If you will give me your thinking, I will give you My
Life." If you don't remember anything else from this article but
this one statement, it's enough to change your life (2 Corinthians 10:5).
To be continued next month: "What is mind renewal, and why is it so
important?"